Showing posts with label girlfriend broke up with me. Show all posts
Showing posts with label girlfriend broke up with me. Show all posts

Saturday, November 28, 2009

What Do I Do? She My Girlfriend Broke My Heart!!!!


First things first, lift your head up, stand up, now scream out loud "SHE BROKE MY HEART"....  Now do you feel better?

Chances are that made you feel a little empowered. Now that you have little gusto behind you, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Realize that you are not the first one this has happened too and you will not be the last. Chances are, this might not even be the first time this has happened to you. She may have done this before or someone else has done this to you.

If this is the last time your heart is broken for the duration of your life, than consider yourself lucky.  However, you can learn from this and if it happens again, you will know how to handle it a little better. Remember it is not the end of the world. You may feel terrible and think there will never be another but let me tell you from experience, there will be another. Those terrible feelings you have, will eventually go away.

Time heals everything, even a broken heart. Although it may seem like the most gut wrenching process a person can go through, it's true; time will heal a broken heart. Now that you see there may be hope in this time of doom and gloom in your life, here is some even better news. There are more fish in the sea.

Even though at this time, you may think she is the only one for you and you may even feel you will never find another. My friend, you will never find another if you choose to never find another.  However, statistics show that women outnumber men nearly 2 to 1 in the world. So, if you want to take a chance, than the odds are in your favor that you will find another.

However, I will say this: "Time is the key, do it when you're ready, and not a second sooner".  Now while you may have been crying to your buddies and crying "my girlfriend broke my heart", you may come to find out that it was a blessing in disguise. You might find out she is not the person you thought she was.

Now, again, the key is time. Let things work them self out. After some time, and plenty of thinking; you might just find out that she is not the person you should be with. Thank your lucky stars and cast your fishing net out into that vast sea of the opposite sex.

Dare to share your experience with others? Leave your comments or feedback below....I love to hear from you.

Friday, November 27, 2009

7 Tips To Get Exgirlfriend Back - Guaranteed!

Regardless of whether your girlfriend broke up with you or if the decision to end your relationship was mutual, you may be feeling that the break-up was a mistake.  It isn’t unusual to regret breaking up with your girlfriend; nor is it unusual to want to get exgirlfriend back.  These feelings of wanting to rekindle a past relationship can occur shortly after a break-up or they may spring up several weeks or months afterwards.

If you want to get your ex back, you are going to want to try some of the following tips.  Because every break-up and every relationship is different, some of these may not apply to your situation; however, be sure to look all of the tips over thoroughly.  If you do not approach the idea of reuniting with your ex cautiously and with care, you may blow your chances of getting her back.

Try these tips as you work toward getting your exgirlfriend back:

• Admit your fault in the break-up, as well as anything you did wrong during the relationship.  Although even the most heartfelt apology is unlikely to get your ex to run back into your arms, it is a good first step.



• Be kind whenever you see her.  Speak nicely, even though you may be hurting and angry—you need to rise above those feelings and understand her needs at the moment.  This will show her that you still care about her.

• Be an excellent listener whenever she talks to you.  Let her express herself and do not interrupt.  Unless she asks for your opinion, do not tell her what she should do or how she should act.

• Think about what you did during the relationship that may have helped to lead up to the break-up.  Work on changing these habits.  For example, if you determine that your ex was likely troubled by your lack of career goals, perhaps you can visit a career counselor and find a job path in which you are interested.  Your ex will see that you are working on changing the habits she disliked--and this will make you attractive to her.

Just as there are suggestions of what you should try, there are also some things you should definitely not do as you try to get exgirlfriend back.

Avoid doing any of these:

• Do not appear needy or emotionally desperate when you see or speak with your ex.  This is not attractive at all.

• Do not follow the cues you see in the movies--sending flowers and serenading her at her workplace are sure to annoy her, not attract her.

• Do not go out with other women if you want to get your ex back.  This sends the message that you do not miss your ex and that you are over the past relationship.  And even if you are careful, your ex will find out that you have seen other women.

By following these tips, you should be able to work towards getting your exgirlfriend back.  Good luck!

Do you have other tips that have successfully helped you get back with your ex girlfriend? Please share....there are guys out there who will worship you like god if you help them. Leave your comments or suggestions below....